A Simple Secret to Adding More Time to Your Day

Watching Less TV

Do you feel like you don’t have time to do the things you’d like to do?

Do you wish you had more time to exercise or take up that hobby you’ve always been interested in?

Do you wish you had more quality time with the people you care about?

The answer to these dilemmas may be in the middle of your living room. After work and sleep, TV viewing is the most commonly reported activity in the U.S., taking up just over half of all leisure time. In the U.S., people average about five hours of TV time each day. TV Watching:

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About three years ago, I made the commitment to stop watching television, and for the most part, have been able to stick to that.  For almost a year, I didn’t even own a television. While I will still occasionally watch a movie or catch a short clip of The Daily Show on my iPad, I no longer spend my evenings or weekends in front of the television. Not watching television has allowed me to focus more energy on:

  • Learning yoga and starting a yoga practice,
  • Going to the gym and working out on a regular basis,
  • Working on completing my Master’s degree,
  • Starting my own businesses and blogs,
  • Planting and working on my garden,
  • Learning photography and offering my photos for sale on two photo websites,
  • And perhaps most importantly, meeting and marrying my husband!

Enjoy Replacement Activities – What things would you love to have more of in your life? These may include:

  • Exercise – start a new activity, get a gym membership, train for a 5k, or just enjoy an evening walk.
  • Improve your relationships – spend time with friends and family members.
  • Start a new hobby or learn new skills- learn how to knit, sew, make candles, garden, or cook.
  • Go back to school – finish your degree, start a master’s program, or learn new skills such as graphic design, photography, massage therapy.
  • Organizing and decluttering your home or office – to simplify your life.
  • Start a blog and share your knowledge with others.
  • Join a Meetup Group – where you can learn salsa dancing, wine tasting, public speaking, computer skills, or just meet new friends.
  • Develop a spiritual practice – visit a new church, learn meditation, or practice gratitude.

What are your thoughts? Share below.

 

 

(1) Harvard School of Public Health Article

21 Days to Improving Your Happiness and Productivity

Happiness Quote - Anne Frank

The field of positive psychology has been growing in popularity as people begin to recognize the correlation between happiness, productivity, and success. Developed by Martin Seligman in his book Authentic Happiness in 1998, positive psychologists seek “to find and nurture genius and talent” and “to make normal life more fulfilling”.

Seligman’s research concluded that happier people get better performance evaluations and higher pay. Other studies have shown that happy people are more positive, creative, tolerant, constructive, generous and non-defensive. They also have lower medical costs and less absenteeism.

While this seems obvious to many of us, finding that happiness can be a challenge in our society. In his popular Ted talk, The happy secret to better work, Shawn Acor says our culture has taught us that, ”If I work harder, then I will be successful. If I’m successful, then I will be happier.”  Putting happiness on the other side of success creates a moving target and your brain never gets there.

According to Acor, “If you can raise levels of positivity in the present, the brain experiences what is called the happiness advantage. When the brain is positive, it performs significantly better than when it’s negative, neutral, or stressed. When you’re positive, dopamine floods into your system which not only makes you happier, but it also turns on learning centers in your brain, allowing you to adapt to the world in a different way.”

Acor goes on to say, “It’s not reality that shapes us, it’s the lens through which you view the world. If you can change the lens, not only can you change your happiness, you can change your world.”

21 Days to Improving Your Happiness and Productivity:

Acor also provides a formula for increasing your happiness and productivity in 21 days, the length of time it takes to create a new habit. Most of them only take a few minutes but the combination has been proven to be very effective. Over time, the brain retains the new pattern, allowing you to work more optimistically and successfully.

Take LifeOhm’s Happiness Challenge and commit to doing the following things for the next 21 days:

  • Write three new things you are grateful for – This helps train your brain to scan the world for the positive things first, rather than focusing on the negative things. Gratitude has long been linked to increased happiness and it’s surprising how quickly your life can improve with this simple practice.
  • Journal about one positive thing that has happened in the past 24 hours, this process allows your brain to relive the positive experience. There are many options for journaling, online with sites such as Penzu or a hand-written journal. Writing by hand, rather than digitally, has been shown to increase learning, which might be helpful when you’re trying to change thought patterns.
  • Exercise for at least 15 minutes -  exercise increases your levels of dopamine, energy, and helps improve your overall sense of well being.
  • Meditation – There are many documented benefits to meditation including reducing the negative effects of stress, mild depression and anxiety. According to Acor, meditation also allows us to get over our cultural ADHD, that has us focusing on more than one thing at once. It allows the mind to quiet and opens us up to new possibilities.
  • Random acts of kindness – In Acor’s study, he had participants write one positive email that praised someone in their social network, but there are many ways to perform random acts of kindness. Get creative and have fun, you will not only make someone else’s day, but it will improve your own.

What helps you improve your happiness and productivity? Are you participating in this challenge? Share your thoughts below.

Five Gifts You Can Give that Help Relieve Stress

Life can get stressful and so can the holidays, but you can use the holidays as an opportunity to give the gift of relaxation to those you care about. Here are some of my favorite relaxation product gift ideas:

shantala Relaxing Music – SRI by Shantala

This is my favorite relaxation music of all time. I first heard the song Om Namo Bhagavate at a retreat several years ago and still turn to this CD when I’m feeling stressed or just want to really relax.

The music carries the listener with love and ease into the ancient yoga of sacred chanting, Kirtan, inviting the listener to sing along in spiritual practice or to simply resonate in the sacred ambiance created by the CD. The mantras and chants on the CD are in Sanskrit, English and Hebrew including Baba Hanuman (composed by Krishna Das), Om Namo Bhagavate/Because the One I Love (English lyrics and melody by Gina Sala), Hineni, r Ram Jaya Ram, and Holy Ma, which is a symphonic musical reflection of the divine feminine.

 

Tranquil & Stress AwayStress Relieving Scents – Tranquil and Stress-Away  Essential Oil Roll-Ons

I absolutely LOVE these travel-size bottles of Young Living Roll-Ons. They’re perfect because they’re small enough to easily fit in your purse or coat pocket so you always have one when you need a calming feeling. They carry several nice scents but these two are my favorite for relaxation:

Tranquil – The scent is amazing with a soothing blend of  lavender, cedarwood and roman chamomile essential oils formulated to calm and relax the body and mind.

Stress Away – A unique blend of vanilla, lime, copaiba, and other pure essential oils that relieves daily stress, encourages relaxation, and reduces nervous tension.

 

Gift Certificates for a Massage, Spa Treatment

A gift certificate to a local spa for a manicure, pedicure, facial or massage  is also a great way to give relaxation. If you’re not sure which spa or service they would like, another option is from Spafinder..com where you can buy gift cards which can be redeemed at over 20,000 locations for spa services, yoga and Pilates studios, fitness clubs, spas, and weight loss programs.

 

Yoga for BeginnersYoga for Beginners Boxed Set

Yoga has long been shown to help create peace of mind and body and has been proven to release stress and anxiety. Its combination of breathing techniques, meditation, and exercise make it the perfect daily routine for many people seeking to live a balanced and health life.

When I started yoga four years ago, it really changed my life and became one of my life passions. A Yoga Boxed Set  is a great way to introduce someone to the healing effects of yoga. You could also consider yoga classes or other yoga equipment.

 

A Tea Gift Set

Tea Gift SetTea is the second most consumed beverage in the world, second only to water. There are thousands of varieties of tea to choose from and the whole routine of brewing and having tea can be a relaxing ritual for many people. Drinking tea can also bring a sense of warmth and comfort and has been shown to have many health benefits.

Last winter, I even made a “tea center” on my kitchen counter with local honey in my favorite antique Frankoma pottery beehive honey jar, my favorite teas, and my favorite tea pot to encourage plenty of tea drinking.

My favorite tea gifts are a simple glass pot with flowering teas and a Teavana PerfecTea Maker wrapped with some of my favorite teas.

There are many great ways you can help give the gift of relaxation, including just spending time with the people you care about and giving lots of hugs!  For more ideas, you can also read, Five Ways to Make Your Gifts More Unique and Thoughtful. Happy Gift Giving!

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